March Madness
03/31/2021 11:30pm
Welp, folks, it looks like March 2021 is in the books. It's been a crazy month. This month has been filled with love, hate, break-ups, vaccines, hate crimes, stimulus checks, vibe checks, & Justin LaBoy. I don't know if it's just me but March has historically been a month filled with hallow drama and angst for the summer. There is always some mad shit going on in March.
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because we have to March over the bullshit!
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It's all good though. I don't mind walking over bullshit to reach my goals. A lot has happened this month but we are still on the planet, thriving like how we should and need to. Some people may be upset about not having some of the things they desire but trust the Universe. You have everything you need to succeed. Just climb like Miley.
Be proud of yourself for making it this far instead of worrying about the things you don't have. Like I don't have my own movie theater yet. I'd like my own movie theater but I don't have that kind of money. Can I work myself into a position where I can have my own movie theater? No doubt *Jadakiss voice*!!!! I don't believe in not achieving because I understand the Universe and time are just getting things in order for us, playa, so just chill. Just remember that you've been here before.
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Idk, I just wanted to give you some positivity going into April. This April might be a month I go supreme on some headtops. I'm calmly feeling antsy to ball up. I'm looking forward to working harder this month to improve. All praises go to Allah and I just receive the leftovers.
And that's facts!!
Finally, I wanted to mark today as the day that NEW YORK HAS FINALLY LEGALIZED WEED, AND FULLY! Congratulations to all the smokers out there. Enjoy yourself freely, and most importantly, safely.
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Let's make April 2021 a good one.
Lady Friends
03/24/2021 2:53AM
Due to some recent reflection, I want to apologize to all the lady friends I've ghosted over the years because I was too immature to deal with both of our emotions.There have been times where I knew I didn't have enough (emotionally) to deal with someone and instead of having that discussion with her, I just ghosted her because I never thought about how she would feel.
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IT MAY BE A SURPRISE, but I too, have been ghosted in the past. It doesn't feel the greatest but it was a necessary lesson. Getting ghosted taught me to never dig too deep into a relationship right away. Is this the wrong lesson to have been taught? I don't know and I can promise you, I don't care. That ghosting experience was cheeks.
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Thinking about how I've done that with some women makes me feel corny. Let me be clear, I don't regret ghosting people because I knew I wasn't invested in that relationship and we would've just wasted each other's time. I just wish I was mature enough to have that conversation at the time. After growing, especially over the past year, I'm more willing to have healthy conversations rather than running away from them. But I'm still single so I have to put these words into practice and pray karma doesn't spray the choppa on me.
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All in all, I apologize to all my lady friends for not only ghosting, but bad relationship choices. It may have been in the past but it was still wrong and I apologize.
Living Single
03/23/2021 5:51AM
Young AT, checkin in on the Worldwide Web!! It's been a lil minute since I last posted but that's because I've just been trying to live. Like everyone else, I had a bunch of personal stuff going on and I needed to take some time to recoup my mind and remind myself of the "ice cream" of life.
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Enjoying myself has been the priority for me lately. Is that like egotistical or something? I honestly don't know. Between work and external priorities, I ended up putting myself last. I realized that I stopped carving out time for myself to enjoy the flowers. They smell good!!
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I'm 22, living single in NYC and trying become the best man I can be for my present & future family, as well as myself. The best reaction to my life is to enjoy it. I refuse to let anyone take happiness away from me. Selfish? Some may say so but I know in my heart that I want to do well for myself so that I can do well for others. You can't take someone somewhere without at least some direction. I'm just building my direction and relationship with God.
And that's facts!
Closing out, I'll say this. Prioritize your own happiness if that is what you are looking for. Like I brought those lil ice cream cups for myself from those elementary school "ice cream parties". Why? Because it makes me happy!!! I just started a sentence with "Because"!! Why? Because it makes me happy.
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Enjoy the ice cream of life.
Inside Her Love
02/28/2021-03/01/2021
The love never dies.
It can only multiply.
If you say otherwise,
Then, stop the lies.
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I hope y'all are ready for March Madness <3
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*headover to One Hit Wonders under "Blog Boy" {wink, wink, nudge nudge}*