Greetings readers!! *Wave emoji* I was just vibing on my Saturday and watching music videos after eating something extremely edible. Due to the "ALGORITHM", I stumbled intentionally upon the video for "Fallen" by Mya, one of my favorite music videos of all time. Why, you ask? Briefly watch the video and we'll discuss. I'll wait for you. I'm patient ;) but don't take too long because time is very valuable.

 

*Plays Jeopardy Music*

 

OK, so you've watched it? Cool. Insane, right? Shorty left her crib to follow her crush all around town, committed fare evasion to catch a train, broke into his crib while he was there, took a bath, and left.

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If I'm homie, I'm asking what did I do? How did I get here? I wouldn't ask who that was because I'm sure I would know. No person does this much for someone unless they hit some sort of spot(spiritually or physically). Honestly, I have no idea what a "choosing signal" is, but from what that word seems like, she gave him EVERY SINGLE one. You wanna talk about manifestation? Fam. Why didn't she just talk to him? Personally, I like that type of weird dramatic crush shit (if I like you <3) but I'm too aware of my surroundings. I will SEE you stalking me so you might as well just pull up and talk to me because you're not low. Being weird in the supermarket isn't gonna get us anywhere. Look, I'm never in a position to tell a woman what to do unless...... but I can give you advice.

 

If you like a guy this much, drop your pride, slide thru and talk to him. Dropping your pride can be extremely powerful. Not only for you, but for others as well. Pride is really useful when directed properly but releasing pride is so nice at times. Like yeah, I'm awesome but you're awesome too and I'd like to awesome together. That's how dynasties happen, ma!

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If you think he's a king, shoot your shot queen. He's probably just busy tryna to decide which yogurts have the best probiotics. I know I am! He's on his game, mama. Clearly, he has tunnel vision. BUT, I invite you to look at this from another perspective. I mentioned earlier about him knowing her in some way, inferring that they may have been intimate! What if the sneaky link got too linky? Now, she loves him, providing major amounts of pressure. What if his priorities don't need who she is? These things happen but you know how you can get ahead of all that?

COMMUNICATION!!!

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I'm not a sneaky link type of guy because "I want someone to leave thru the front door with cuz we don't gotta hide no more" but I know how I'd have one because I enjoy being lowkey. First of all, I would set boundaries pretty early on. We need to communicate rules and come to understandings. You will never have to sneak into my crib or do some insane shit. I'd rather have the candles ready for you when you pull up. If we break our link, it is what it is. I may take the chain to the jeweler to see what he can do but if the Big Man says no, he said no. But again, I'm not a sneaky link guy. I'm dating to marry because the streets are nasty. In a relationship, I accept conversations, commitments, good problems, better solutions, positive affirmations, and massages. I feel comfortable in asking for that because I'm willing to reciprocate. It's all about communicating what you want and seeing if your other is TRULY significant.

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P.S. Skip to 0:34 of the music video. My literal weakness in a woman. Like come be a dork in my faaaaace!! I need, want, & will have allat, dweeb.